Action cards: 5 things caregivers do

First, to be honest

Installing ELUM doesn't mean your child gets ready alone starting tomorrow. The cards only show what to do. Wanting to do it and getting used to it come from repeating it every day.

For the first 2 to 3 weeks, it takes more of your time, not less. After that, you find yourself repeating the same words a little less.

1. Edit the cards yourself

The steps AI suggests are a draft. Change them to your home's order and to words your child knows. You know best what is easy and what is hard.

2. Stay close at first

Look at the card together, point to it, and do it together if needed. As it gets familiar, step back one step at a time. Don't take all the help away at once.

3. Same time, same place

Using the cards today and skipping tomorrow makes it hard to get used to them. Pick one routine and use it at the same time every day. Keep going on weekends when you can.

4. Praise right away, and be specific

The app's stars and sounds are not enough on their own. Your "you put your socks on by yourself" is the biggest reward. Always keep the reward you promised.

5. Accept the days it doesn't go well

Sick or tired days are hard for anyone. On those days, use fewer cards and praise what did get done. Pushing turns the cards into something your child dislikes.

You don't have to do it alone

If you have concerns, please talk with your child's teacher or a professional. In ELUM, you can invite another caregiver to see the same routines, and print cards to send to school or a center.

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